It’s common for women to not know what they want to do with their lives. Usually around the time we hit our mid-twenties things get complicated. Do we want kids? A career? Or something entirely different? When you don’t know what you want, you tend to feel unsure of yourself. You feel confused and insecure. I have some ways to help you figure out what you want. It’ll take some work and some soul searching, but I believe in you.


Unplug- When you begin the soul-searching process to figure out what you want in life, you need to get rid of distraction. Shut off your phone; turn off your computer and tablet. You need to be free of the outside world and those things that take up your time.

Hang Out By Yourself- I know it’s hard to separate yourself from friends sometimes, but it’s imperative that you spend some quality time by yourself. It might be scary and difficult at first, but you’ll get used to spending time on your own.

Try Some New Things- What have you always wanted to try? Go for it because you may have a knack for it. It may also lead to your life’s passion. Show yourself something new and find something fun to do. Try to do it on your own. If you have supportive friends, then you can bring them along. Remember that you’re allowed to be scared when trying something new. It’s entering the unknown, which is always scary.

Listen To Yourself- Pay attention to those moments when you feel happiness. Try to notice the things you like in life. You need to know what makes you happy in order to figure out what you want in life so listen closely and see what happens.


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